Looks like it might be just the two of us then Mate
I do recall Phil R saying that he didn't care if people let him know if they are coming or not, he said that he just goes to the meeting place & see then who has turned up, that's ok if that's the way he wants to do it when he was putting his rides on.
Being a ride leader myself, putting in the time to put on a ride I think it's only the right thing to do & show their appreciation to let us ride leader know that they would like to come, it is also good for others to see who they are going to be riding with.
Giving the nature of my rides, I want to cap it at 10, how can I control that if nobody puts their name down, I put the numbers down from 1 to 10, the ride will be full when number 10 is reached.
With all my rides so far members have put their names down, I have seen names put down for the Marysville rides in the past, this time so far there hasn't been anyone put their name on the list, that's why I asked if this ride is still on.